Why you should leave an introvert alone

It’s not you. It’s me.

Well…that depends on the person and the situation. Still, I’m selective on how I like to spend my time 🙃

Being an introvert is not about purposely pissing off folks just to be left alone. A lot of times, we just want that solitude to recharge our batteries. I’m pretty sure there are other folks that I’ve declined invitations wonder as to why I don’t want to mingle and socialise.

I’m content living at home, doing my activities and tending to my personal businesses.

Betsy, on the other hand…well, she makes sure to have her boundaries in place 🐮

Introverted peeps – let me know in the comments on how you cope with situations like these.



I just wanna stay home

It’s Monday. Another start of the week and almost close to Christmas. I’m thankful to have avoided (or at least, canceled) any pending invites during the holiday season.

Not to sound like a Grinch but…staying home, reading my books while sipping tea is ideal for me. Growing up, I was never invited to parties or attended any clubs. I didn’t find them intriguing. Probably because of the time it takes to travel and being in a room full of crowded people makes me feel anxious.

I’m pretty sure I’ve let down some folks who were hoping to see me. It’s not that I’m being mean. I just can’t cope in high strung social situations. Being an introvert has its ups and downs.

Do you feel this way? Let me know in the comments below.